Short Answer - You don't have to - that's my job :)


As a parent, you know that capturing those precious moments of your children smiling can be a challenge, especially during a photography session. Here are some helpful tips to ensure your kids feel comfortable and happy, resulting in genuine smiles (how many of us have said "use your real smile").

1. Prepare Them Ahead of Time

Before the session, talk to your children about what to expect:

  • Explain the Process: Let them know there will be a friendly photographer taking pictures, and it will be fun.
  • Choose Comfortable Clothing: Pick outfits that your kids like and feel comfortable in. Avoid anything too tight or itchy.

2. Keep It Fun and Relaxed

A fun and relaxed atmosphere helps kids feel at ease:

  • Bring Their Favorite Toy: Having a favorite toy or stuffed animal can provide comfort and make them more willing to smile, we can always snap a few photos with their favorite toy if that's what makes them comfortable and happy - those might be the most memorable keepsakes for them when they are older and look back on the memories.
  • Play Music: If there's a song they love, play it during the session to keep them happy and entertained - I am always happy to play any songs your kids love the most, dancing photos are usually the most fun!

3. Be Playful and Engaging

Interactive activities can bring out natural smiles:

  • Play Games: Simple games like peek-a-boo, Simon says, or a quick round of hide-and-seek can be very effective.
  • Tell Jokes: Share funny jokes or silly stories to get them laughing.
  • Make Faces: Encourage them to make funny faces and join in the fun.

4. Stay Positive and Patient

Your attitude can greatly influence your child's mood:

  • Be Encouraging: Praise your child and tell them how great they’re doing.
  • Stay Calm: If your child gets fussy, stay calm and patient. A positive attitude will help them relax.

5. Incorporate Familiar Faces

Sometimes, having a familiar face can help:

  • Parents and Siblings: Participate in the session initially to help your child feel more secure. You can also bring a grandparent, aunt or uncle who might be able to help make some funny faces or give some tickles while I'm snapping the pics.
  • Friends: If your child has a close friend, consider including them in the session for some fun interactions.

6. Use Rewards Wisely

Rewards can be a great motivator:

  • Small Treats: Offer small, non-messy treats as an incentive for cooperation but save those for AFTER the session and only with good behavior to avoid any potential messes on the good clothes for the photos.
  • Fun Activities: Promise a fun activity after the session, like a trip to the playground or a favorite snack. If your kids are in a grumpy mood you can also think about doing a quick little activity before the session (keeping in mind of potential messes) to get them in a happy mood beforehand.

7. Capture Candid Moments

Some of the best smiles happen spontaneously:

  • Natural Play: Let your children play naturally and we will capture those candid moments.
  • Interactive Activities: Encourage activities like running, jumping, dancing, or playing with siblings to get genuine smiles.

8. Stay Flexible

Flexibility is key to a successful session:

  • Go with the Flow: Be prepared to adjust based on your child’s mood and energy levels.
  • Allow Breaks: If your child needs a break, we can take a few minutes to let them relax and recharge.


Conclusion

Getting your kids to smile during a photography session doesn’t have to be a daunting task. With a little preparation, playfulness, and patience, you can help create a fun and relaxed environment where your child feels comfortable and happy. The genuine smiles that come from these moments will result in beautiful, heartfelt photos that you'll treasure forever. Happy photo session!

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